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I was diagnosed with breast cancer on June 11, 2010. As a result of my treatment, I have lymphedema in my left arm. I draw my strength from the Lord, as well as my family's Scots-Irish heritage. Our Graham's were a tough and scrappy bunch of fighters on the Scottish/English border. They came to America and continued to fight when necessary: in the American Revolution; the Civil War; and my brother is a Captain in the U.S. Army. My ancestors settled this country against all odds. My great-grandmothers on both sides of the family were pioneer women who settled the West. Along with that heritage, and the full armor of God, I am walking the walk and fighting the good fight.

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Out of the mouths of babes

I've tried to be open with the kids about my breast cancer. Eric and I told them less than 24 hours after we found out the diagnosis. I've wanted them to talk about how they are feeling, their fears, their questions. Anything is fair game. But they haven't really said a whole lot. Sure, when we told them on June 12, there were tears. But they swallowed them pretty quickly.

Tonight during dinner, I opened the subject of my inevitable hair loss. I wanted to prepare them mentally as best I could. (Ironic, since I find myself so unprepared, despite knowing that this day was coming.)

I asked them what they were thinking. Would they freak out at me being hairless? I want them to take it seriously, but not too much so. I don't think I want any bald jokes...unless I initiate it. Kind of like the "flat" jokes about my chest. It's okay if I say it. But not so much so for others.

Anyway, I had to crack up at the two responses I got from them. This was spontaneous, right at the beginning:

Isabelle: "You are going to be all face."

Olivier: "Now we will find out if you really have eyes on the back of your head."

Gotta love it. It made me crack up for the first time over the subject!
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2 comments:

  1. AnonymousSeptember 5, 2010 at 11:03 PM

    You have been blessed with such amazing kids. The reactions to the subject are so raw and so real.Like u said only from the mouth of babes. Well I hope that gives u some insight on how behind you they are through this journey:) And I hope it eases a peace of you in regards to the recent hair loss. God is giving u such amazing strength and courage, Thank u God You are great.
    Luv Ya and Always Prayin for You ~Trish

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  2. Well-Rounded MamaSeptember 6, 2010 at 11:24 PM

    I thought Olivier's comment was especially funny and spirited. "Now we'll see if you really do have eyes in the back of your head!" Good one!

    What a blessing to have children who can help you through the tough bits by saying something sassy or funny. I like their spirit.

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